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Do The Right Thing: Terminate Face-To-Face

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(Published May 25, 2009)

There's no denying it. Terminating employees is one of the toughest parts of the job. That said, just because it's tough, doesn't mean employers should take what I think is the easy way out.

What's the easy way out in my opinion? Not delivering news of a termination face-to-face. Consider these real-life examples.

  • A few years ago, Radio Shack used e-mail to notify about 400 employees that their positions were being eliminated.

  • Another employer phoned a sick employee at home and left a voice-mail message informing her that business hadn't been good as of late, and she was off the payroll as of that day.

  • A California food processing plant mailed letters to employees' homes telling them that they were being laid off.

  • A text message alerted a shop clerk that she had been terminated.

  • The only way another employee learned that he had been fired was upon receiving an e-mail informing him that his medical insurance was being cancelled.

I understand that sometimes it is not possible to deliver the termination message in person, but whenever that possibility exists I believe it should be utilized. It's the courteous thing to do.

Treating departing employees with respect is not only good for the company's reputation and the morale of remaining employees, but it might just prevent an angry ex-employee from seeking solace in court. That is, as long as the termination message is communicated to all affected individuals consistently and with common sense.

One employer gave five African-American female workers no advance notice of an impending layoff, closely monitored them as they gathered their belongings, and prohibited them from walking through the office to say good-bye to co-workers. A white male employee, on the other hand, did receive advance notice, was not monitored, and was allowed to make his rounds to say good-bye. Not surprising, the state commission against discrimination awarded damages to the female employees for emotional distress, plus fees and costs, which the state supreme court upheld.

Another manager actually summoned a nurse out of surgery to tell her she was being laid off. Luckily for the patient, the surgery was minor and he/she wasn't adversely affected by the nurse's absence.

The next time you're tasked with delivering a termination message start by timing it right. Then, communicate the message in person. Finally, allow all employees to leave with dignity!

Melissa V. Pomerantz
Editor


My significant other's former employer put a pink slip in his paycheck before it was mailed on Friday. Unfortunately, we didn't get it in Saturday's mail, so he went to work Monday morning not knowing anything and his supervisor asked, "Why are you here?" Humiliated him, and just completely cowardly and unnecessary.
Posted by: ferretrick at 5/26/2009 8:41 AM


Many years ago, I was hired for a new job. They told me to sit at a particular desk and they found a file for me to start. About 15 minutes later a lady arrived and asked what I was doing at her desk.

Apparently she didn't realize she had been fired. The face-to-face meeting the prior friday hadn't gotten through to her. However you deliver the message, it should be clear!
Posted by: KSAcct at 5/26/2009 11:58 AM


My last employer called me while I was sick in bed with the flu. I was strung out on Nyquil and barely remember that they let me go. I have no respect for the HR Director and run into her quite often at events. I will steer myself in another direction when she sees me. The good thing that came out of the whole situation is, I'm now at a competitor who appreciates my employment.
Posted by: SF at 5/26/2009 1:59 PM


I always without fail do terminations face to face. Generally I will ask the employee to come in early in order that they can leave without embarrasment if they want. However, I have to say that almost every time, they tell me they would rather I just told them on the phone when we made arrangements to meet!!

But I, like you feel that the least I can do is to afford them the respect to sit in front of them and tell them the bad news.
Posted by: gentriff at 5/27/2009 3:09 AM


I was let go while at the Doctors office by cell phone. Made me want to leave knowing I couldn't afford the visit anymore, but my child was running a 102 temp. I always say in person is best. Our company even has the Sales Mgr go to the Sales person that is being let go so that there are no communication errors.
Posted by: TN at 5/27/2009 10:47 AM


I heard of a termination where they had sent this poor gal to a training class. They interrupted the class with the security guards, told her to get her stuff and then told her she was getting fired. All in front of the class filled with other employees. WOW! Talk about a bad day.
Posted by: floored at 5/27/2009 10:54 AM


Do it in person, keep it short and be very clear. I sat in on a termination where the firing manager bumbled about so thoroughly that even I was confused at the end of the meeting as to if the employee was fired or not! Be clear, respectful, and brief. Once the decision has been made, all you are doing is communicating it, not debating it. Give all the info that you need to re: final pay, severance, benefits, or tell them how that will be communicated to them. I like to give terminated employees options for gathering their personal things. Would they prefer to wait until no other employees are around? Would they like to make an appointment to come back for them, or have them sent?

Giving a former employee even that small option leaves them with a little bit of control when they have suddenly have none.

As an HR director, I've done many terminations. They don't get easier, so imagine (if you have never been there) what it's like on the other side of the desk.
Posted by: Elizabeth at 5/27/2009 12:17 PM


Yes terminating employees is never easy. My least favorite examples include the employee who learned of their layoff when they received a COBRA letter and the time a VP of HR of a company I was working as a consultant for told me to send a telegram to notify an employee of his termination. He was being terminated for threatening behavior. I refused, he knew where I worked! I had already been involved in warnings and held the discussion in person with security present. As an in-house HR exec I did fire someone who returned a few weeks later and thanked me. It had been a wake up call for his arrogant behavior. Good luck to all who are required to have these tough conversations.
Posted by: Rebecca Mazin( Visit ) at 5/27/2009 12:46 PM


I was called early one Monday morning and told I didn't have to attend the regular Monday morning staff meeting due to the fact my immediate supervisor's boss decided the prior Friday I would be laid off (i.e. my services were not longer needed. Later in the week, when I tried to see the President of the organization to thank him for giving me an opportunity, he refused to see me. Meanwhile, all week, other employees kept stopping by to voice their shock over the President's decision.
Posted by: Bernadette Farrell at 5/27/2009 6:10 PM


Did one this morning for gross misconduct. Drove 40 miles for a 10 minute conversation...stomach in knots all weekend...still the right thing to do.
Posted by: Chris Davis at 6/8/2009 3:01 PM


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